I'm that mama. It's not even a secret. I'm not proud. In fact, it gnaws at me. A friend introduced this to me after I'd had a particularly ugly bedtime ritual. I'm a grown up. I DO know better (although I don't always act like it.) They are kids. Sometimes they DO know better, but sometimes they DON'T. I can't always control how they act, but I can always control how I react. So here's to loving more and yelling less!! I'm starting with a week. Then a month. Then going from there. Feel free to hold me accountable.